I posted this on my FB page and got a string of responses. Gossip happens in big cities too, but in a small town it can cause enormous stress. I really hate gossip. Don't be seduced into even listening to it, its like eating a cheap pizza too fast , it doesn't satisfy it, just makes you feel ill.

Life in a small town …

To the usual suspects … remember that there are always two sides to every story, and sometimes more. So to continue to spread slander, lies (which can become a legal matter) and misinformation, when you only have access to the biased opinions of one party is foolish, and reveals you for who you are.  To the Fag Ash Lil’s (let’s face it, it’s usually females who love to do all the nasty legwork of spreading poison) who delight in perpetuating toxic gossip, cackling at their favourite watering hole or the fruit & vegie section of the IGA  (unfortunately with the ubiquitous seduction of a juicy bit of goss you’ll find it happening at every aisle at the supermarket). Get a life! Stop behaving like fourteen-year-old schoolgirls under the illusion that by gossiping you are bonding. There are so many good things or important matters you could be putting your energy towards other than putting the metaphorical knife in other people’s backs and energetically that is what you are doing.  The proposed antimony mine in Dorrigo is right in our backyard for one.  Use your energy to make a difference, not to weigh in on matters that are none of your business. Other people’s mistakes or their pain is not for your entertainment.  And if you insist on filling your head with superfluous negativity – watch a reality show on TV!  The Good Book says to judge not lest you also be judged. When you point the finger at someone, you have three fingers pointing back at you!

Peace & Love. (really)



P.S. I am still off the caffeine !